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Are Bull Terriers good family dogs?

⏱ 7 min read🏷 Getting a dogUpdated 14 September 2026

The short answer is yes, for the right household, and the useful part is what makes a household right. This is written to help you decide honestly rather than to sell you the breed.

Quick answer
  • Yes, for the right family, and genuinely not for every family. That distinction is the whole answer.
  • They are affectionate to the point of clingy and do badly left alone for long days. If the house is empty nine hours a day, this is the wrong breed.
  • Size and enthusiasm are the real issue with small children, not temperament. A happy 30 kg (66 lb) dog knocks over a toddler without meaning anything by it.
  • They need daily exercise and something to think about. An under-stimulated Bull Terrier invents his own entertainment, and you will not like it.
  • Socialisation before sixteen weeks matters more here than in most breeds, and that window does not reopen.

What makes them good family dogs

The affection is not an exaggeration. Bull Terriers are exceptionally people-focused: they lean rather than sit beside you, follow you room to room, and take being part of the household seriously. For a family that wants a dog genuinely involved in daily life rather than an independent one, that is the appeal.

  • They are funny. The breed has a well-earned reputation as a clown, and a lot of family life with one is simply entertaining.
  • They are robust. Sturdily built and not fragile, which suits a busy household better than a delicate breed does.
  • They are loyal and attached in a way that makes them very easy to love.
  • They are usually good with their own people, including children they have grown up alongside.

Where they are difficult

None of this is a reason not to get one. It is a reason to be honest about what you are taking on.

  • Strength and enthusiasm. An adult male at 22-38 kg (49-84 lb) who is delighted to see you is a physical event. Around toddlers and elderly relatives that matters, regardless of how sweet his intentions are.
  • Stubbornness. The breed was developed to get on with things without waiting for instructions, and it shows. Training works, but it works on motivation rather than repetition. See why they are so stubborn.
  • They do not settle themselves. Many breeds will find a corner and sleep. This one will find you, and then find something to do.
  • Separation is hard for them. Long days alone are a poor fit and a common route into separation anxiety.
  • Compulsive behaviour runs in the breed. Tail chasing has a documented genetic component in Bull Terriers specifically, and under-stimulation makes it worse. See why they chase their tails.
  • Health. Congenital deafness, two inherited kidney conditions and atopic skin disease all run in the breed, which is both an emotional and a financial commitment.
Spinning or tail chasing? The spin and tail-chasing check grades it on the measures the research uses.

Bull Terriers and children

The honest framing: the risk in this breed is physical rather than temperamental. A well-socialised Bull Terrier who has grown up with children is typically devoted to them. He is also large, solid, low to the ground and extremely pleased about everything, and toddlers get knocked over.

What that means in practice:

  • Older children tend to be an easier fit than toddlers, simply because they stay upright.
  • Supervise, as you would with any dog. Not because the breed is suspect, but because children and dogs both misread each other.
  • Teach the children as well as the dog. Leave him alone when he is eating or asleep; do not climb on him; do not take things out of his mouth.
  • Give him somewhere to go. A crate or a room the children do not enter is not a punishment, it is the pressure valve that prevents most problems.
  • Watch for resource guarding early. It is far easier to address at the freezing-over-a-bowl stage than later. See resource guarding.

When a Bull Terrier is the wrong choice

Worth reading properly before you commit, because the dogs that end up in rescue usually came from households where one of these was true from the start.

Think hard if any of these apply.
  • The house is empty for eight or nine hours a day, most days.
  • Nobody has time for a walk plus some training or scent work, every day, for the next decade.
  • You want a dog that will settle quietly in the background.
  • You are not in a position to absorb the cost of a chronic skin or kidney condition.
  • You want a first dog and are not prepared to put real work into training a strong, stubborn one.
  • Your household cannot physically manage a boisterous 30 kg (66 lb) dog.

A Bull Terrier in the wrong home is not a bad dog. He is a dog whose needs are not being met, and it usually shows up as destruction, noise, compulsive behaviour or an owner who has run out of road.

Making it work

  • Use the socialisation window. Between roughly three and sixteen weeks, calm and varied exposure to people, children, noises and surfaces does more for adult temperament than anything you can do later.
  • Exercise the head as well as the legs. Fifteen minutes of scent work settles a Bull Terrier more than an extra half hour of walking. See enrichment ideas.
  • Keep training short. Five minutes, twice a day, ending while he is still interested.
  • Build up to being alone gradually rather than discovering the problem on your first full day back at work.
  • Never use laser pointers or torch games. In this breed it is the most common route into a light fixation that is genuinely hard to undo.

Frequently asked questions

Are Bull Terriers good with children?

A well-socialised Bull Terrier who has grown up around children is typically devoted to them. The practical risk is physical rather than temperamental: an adult male at 22-38 kg (49-84 lb) who is delighted to see someone will knock a toddler over without meaning anything by it. Many families find older children an easier fit, and supervision plus a space the dog can retreat to solves most of the rest.

Are Bull Terriers good for first-time owners?

They can be, but they are not an easy first dog. They are strong, stubborn, people-needy and slow to settle themselves, and they need consistent daily exercise and mental work for the whole of their lives. A first-time owner who is genuinely prepared to train one properly can do very well; one expecting a low-effort family pet will struggle.

Can Bull Terriers be left alone during the day?

Not for long days, comfortably. The breed is strongly attached to its people and copes poorly with extended isolation, which is a common route into separation anxiety and destructive behaviour. If your household is empty for eight or nine hours most days, this is an honest reason to choose a different breed.

Are Bull Terriers aggressive?

Aggression is not a breed characteristic, and the Kennel Club breed standard describes the Bull Terrier as even-tempered and amenable to discipline. Like any strong, confident dog, an under-exercised, under-socialised or poorly handled one can become a problem, which is why early socialisation and consistent training matter as much here as they do anywhere.

Do Bull Terriers get on with other dogs?

It varies by individual and by how well they were socialised, and some are same-sex intolerant as adults. Careful, early, positive exposure to other dogs makes a real difference. If you already have a dog, meet the specific dog you are considering rather than relying on the breed as a guide.

Sources

  • Moon-Fanelli AA, Dodman NH, Famula TR, Cottam N. "Characteristics of compulsive tail chasing and associated risk factors in Bull Terriers." J Am Vet Med Assoc. 2011;238(7):883-889. pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
  • De Risio L, Freeman J, Lewis T. "Prevalence, heritability and genetic correlations of congenital sensorineural deafness and coat pigmentation phenotype in the English bull terrier." BMC Veterinary Research. 2016;12:146. bmcvetres.biomedcentral.com
  • The Royal Kennel Club. Bull Terrier breed standard. www.royalkennelclub.com

This is general information, not veterinary advice. It cannot account for your individual dog, and nothing here replaces an examination by a vet who can see him. Anything that looks urgent needs a vet now rather than a web page.

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